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Stop Leaving Your Relationships to Chance - Build Partnership by Design
You've mastered success in your career, but connection, commitment, and deep partnership require a different kind of strategy. As The Relationship Architect™, I work with driven, discerning individuals who are ready to approach their relational life with the same excellence they bring everywhere else, without therapy fatigue or surface-level advice.
Clarity, Confidence, Commitment — All by design.
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You've Mastered Success.
Now Let’s Architect a Relationship That Meets You There.
You’re used to operating at the highest level, so why does your personal life still feel like the one place you can’t seem to break through?
Whether you’re dating, divorced, or navigating disconnection, the answer isn’t more therapy, more apps, or more waiting.
Here’s the truth: What built your career won’t build the partnership you really want, but strategy will.
You don’t need to change who you are - You just need a new framework.


This Isn't Therapy.
It’s Strategic Consulting for The Most Important Part of Your Life - Your Relationships.
I’m Helena, former CEO and executive relationship coach, trained in emotional intelligence and Positive Psychology.
I work exclusively with high-performing individuals and couples who are ready to approach their relationships with the same clarity, confidence, and strategic precision they bring to everything else.
No emotional guesswork. No generic advice. No settling for “good enough".
Through my The Relationship Architect™ method, grounded in emotional intelligence and systems thinking, I help you:
- Clarify your values, non-negotiables and blind spots
- Navigate dating or partnership with confidence and direction
- Build connection that evolves with you and endures real-life growth
Whether you’re single and selective, in a relationship that feels misaligned, or preparing for marriage, your relationship deserves the same intentionality as your career. The difference is, I’ll help you create that result in months, not years.
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Real stories from high-achieving individuals and couples who chose to approach their relationships with clarity, purpose, and strategy, creating results that matched success in the rest of their lives. From rebuilding trust and connection after years of drift, to breaking old patterns and finally attracting aligned partnerships, these are the outcomes of applying The Relationship Architect™ method with intention.
Dating with Power After Divorce
“Helena coached me through divorce and helped me re-enter dating with strategy and self-respect. I no longer mistake status for substance.”
— Zarah, Tech Executive, New York
Transformed Our Marriage in 8 Weeks
“We were on the brink of separation. Within eight weeks, Helena helped us design a shared vision, restructure our communication, and reconnect emotionally. We're stronger than we've ever been.”
— Russ and Eileen, Executive Couple, Married 10 Years
Love Boundaries for High-Profile Lives
“When your life is public, dating becomes a minefield. Helena taught me how to vet my men like I vet my Birkins. She helped me design boundaries that protect my relationship while still building my brand. My partner gets the real me, not just the Instagram version.”
— Content Creator, International
Dating Like a CEO, Not a Teenager
“Helena gave me tools I didn't know I needed. I'd spent years dating charismatic time-wasters. She taught me how to spot a real partner in three dates. I treat my relationship like a business now — not in a cold sense, but with vision, regular reviews, and long-term thinking.”
— Dan, Founder, UK
My Business Grew. So Did My Relationship.
“After working with Helena, my pre-nup wasn't the only thing with strategy behind it. One year into my marriage now, I've never felt more fulfilled and my business has never performed better.”
— CEO, International
No More Time-Wasters. In Love or Life.
“I never thought I needed 'help' until I realized my divorce cost more than just money. Helena taught me how to vet partners like I vet investments. No more time-wasters.”
— Private Equity Investor, Dubai
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I'm Helena, The Relationship Architect™.
After two decades of leading businesses as a CEO and senior executive, I witnessed a pattern that frankly irritated me: Brilliant leaders who could navigate boardrooms with ease but felt completely lost in love.
The most successful executives I knew? They had one thing in common- Relationships that amplified their success rather than drained it. Meanwhile, others were stuck in patterns that would make a strategy consultant weep.
Maybe you’re like them: Highly capable, deeply intelligent but still hitting invisible walls in love, connection, or emotional safety. You don’t need to change who you are, you just need a new framework.
So, I did what any recovering CEO would do. I left corporate life not to walk away from achievement, but to bring strategy where it’s most needed. I combined my leadership experience, emotional intelligence, qualifications in Positive Psychology and coaching, and created a system that could build what most people only guess at - Real, lasting partnership.
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You Wouldn't Sign a Lifetime Contract Without Due Diligence. Why Do That With Love?
Your relationship is your most important investment - Emotionally, energetically, financially. Let's architect it with the same intelligence you bring to everything else that matters.
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